feat!: v4.0 breaking API cleanup + explicitApi

BREAKING changes to the core:
- treeIterator is now a read-only `val`; added `iterator(order)` and use `asSequence(order)`.
- removeChild() only removes a direct child of the receiver; added `detach()` to unhook a node.
- addChild() rejects re-parenting and cycles (throws TreeNodeException); detach() first to move.
- clear() no longer nulls the receiver's own parent; only removes descendants.
- path() returns List<TreeNode<T>>? (null) instead of throwing.

Also:
- Enable strict explicitApi() across core + both modules; add explicit `public` modifiers.
- Update tests for the new contracts + add TreeNodeV4Test; refresh .api baselines.
- README + CHANGELOG (with migration notes); bump version to 4.0.0.

47 JVM tests green.

build.gradle.kts

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ plugins {
 
 val PUBLISH_GROUP_ID = "com.github.adriankuta"
 val PUBLISH_ARTIFACT_ID = "tree-structure"    // base artifact; KMP will add -jvm, -ios*, etc.
-val PUBLISH_VERSION = "3.4.0"
+val PUBLISH_VERSION = "4.0.0"
 
 val snapshot: String? by project
 
@@ -60,6 +60,7 @@ repositories {
 }
 
 kotlin {
+    explicitApi()
     jvmToolchain(21)
 
     jvm()